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Post Grad Depression Took Over My Life

It’s one of those things where you think, “that’ll never happen to me.”  Especially since most people don’t talk about it, who knew that it was a real thing that happens to so many graduates.  Post graduate depression is a thing and it is alive, ready to attack your lively personality, all of your goals, hopes, and dreams. Graduating in May, I knew that I had life by the hands.  Graduation was the best time of my life and I had internships, experience, and that piece of paper that cost me tons of loans that took me four years so…

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How to Get Over Your Cuffing Season Buddy for the Spring

Cuffing season is over and just like the cold weather you’re either about to get ditched or you’ll have to do the ditching! Either this is the season that you’ll pick up your spring fling daddy or it’s that time your cuffing season buddy decides that it’s better to let things go.  Point. Blank. Period. Winter time is over so the Netflix and chill dates will end, your “man” will start hanging with his boys, and he’ll start going missing, which is okay because it was just for a season right? Now is the perfect time when you should leave that dude…

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Happy 22nd Birthday to Me! 10 Things I Learned at 21

It’s January 3, 2017 and I’m feeling 22! On this day, my presence graced the world and it hasn’t been the same since, clearly. Haha.  While everyone complained on social media about how 2016 was so horrible for them, 2016 was actually amazing for me.  I achieved most of my goals,  traveled a lot, invested into myself,  and I was finally able to hang out with my older friends. I basically lived the 21 year old life and I loved every time about this year honey! If I could give my 21st year a title it would definitely be “India Turns…

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We Need To Make Love Cool Again

I’m 21 and never been on a real date. I know right it’s sad. The only “date” I’ve been on is when a guy who was very infatuated with me asked me to go out to eat, but it wasn’t a date. I remember I was already on the way to get food with my friends but he told me he wanted me to go out to eat with him and he would pay. I was a sophomore in college, who’s going to turn down a free meal at a decent restaurant? Not me. I’m 21 and never been on…

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What I Learned This Summer About ‘Adulting’

This summer I feel like a bus came and hit me with a big sign that says ‘ADULTING’ on it in big red letters. I’ve struggled like a bitch this summer and I never would’ve thought I would be living this type of way, forced to be learning how to do everything on my own. I got the chance to finally intern at a place to pursue the requirements on my degree plan and learn about my field and this is the repay I get? That’s exactly how I felt. So once I first found out I got my internship,…

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