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Do We Have to Pick Between Nicki & Cardi?

Barbz on Twitter have claimed today as #NickiDay due to the release of Nicki Minaj’s two new tracks “Barbie Tingz” and “Chun Li”. Nicki Minaj has went on a hiatus from social media and speculations have heated up wondering, is this the start of a new album on the way? Nicki tweeted “4” on Sunday and deleted it which made fans frantic wondering what did it symbolize.  The next day she tweeted and deleted “3” as well. #TweetAndDelete: #NickiMinaj tweeted for the first time since last year & quickly deleted it…What y'all think "4" means? 👀👀👀 A post shared by…

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What My First Real Relationship Taught Me on Valentine’s Day

In the midst of today being filled with pictures of couples, people tweeting about how much they hate Valentine’s Day, and friends celebrating each other, finally I have a bae to be with. I would’ve never guess that this time around that I would have a boyfriend on Valentine’s Day.  I have never one of anti-Valentine’s Day type of girls, but I am happy that I can finally have this experience. When looking back on my past relationships, or “situationships” and thinking how far I’ve come, they all have become lessons to me.  Though I didn’t hate Valentine’s Day, I…

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Did Draya Deserve Getting Donkey of the Day for Not Signing Her Son’s Homework?

Draya opened up another reason for social media to drag her not too long after her Thanksgiving dinner troll. She posted on her Instagram that she was annoyed that her son Kniko’s homework was to memorize a four-minute speech, practice it for five times a day, and then required her signature.  Irritated with hearing the speech, it seems that Draya refused to sign the assignment which caused her son to not get the points he needed. TSR Staff: Thembi ( @ThembiTV_ ) _____________________________________ #InCaseYouMissedIt Twitter had a drag session for #Draya last night. _____________________________________ If you need a refresher, it's…

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This Is Me, Reinvented. 

I literally abandoned my blog for so long, but it was for a really good reason!  From April until now I’ve been on a rollercoaster of highs and lows of life.  I graduated college in May, I travelled internationally to Mexico for the first time, and I started my career. At the end of my last semester in school, it was the most stressed I’ve ever been in my life.  The end of the semester was filled with so many thoughts like turning in 20 page papers,  applying for jobs daily, and finding my true purpose in life.  Really going…

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Post Grad Depression Took Over My Life

It’s one of those things where you think, “that’ll never happen to me.”  Especially since most people don’t talk about it, who knew that it was a real thing that happens to so many graduates.  Post graduate depression is a thing and it is alive, ready to attack your lively personality, all of your goals, hopes, and dreams. Graduating in May, I knew that I had life by the hands.  Graduation was the best time of my life and I had internships, experience, and that piece of paper that cost me tons of loans that took me four years so…

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